乐观与悲观 有这么一个小故事也很有趣,说的是有两只螳螂到外面逛了一圈回来。一只伤心的说:;外面的人在骂我们是害虫。;但另一只却一脸高兴说:;我倒没觉得,明明他们在说我们嗨!虫!乐观和悲观仅一念之差。猛想起笑星潘长江说他自己身高的一句台词:"浓缩的都是精华。;呵呵经典哪,乐观的人看到的是自信,悲观的人想到是自卑。 这便是乐观与悲观看事物的不同,乐观者在困境中寻找机遇,而悲观者则在机会中看到的是危难。乐观者觉得满世界是鲜花和阳光,悲观者纵然是眼前一片光明,脸上却无法露出一丝笑容。鲜花盛开,悲观者沮丧花开了会花谢。乐观者想到的是花开了以后能果实累累。乐观的人,看懂生活的百科全书,奏响生活的美妙乐章;悲观的人,看透生活的酸甜苦辣,听不见欢乐轻叩门响 乐观的人,用正义鞭笞邪恶,笑傲江湖,独领风骚;悲观的人,用绝望旁观邪恶,看破红尘,借酒疗伤. 乐观的人即使身患重疾也能坦然处之,笑对每一天,珍惜每分每秒。悲观的人也许并没什么但杞人忧天,忧心忡忡惶惶不可终日。 试想红楼梦中的林黛玉和薛宝钗如果生活在现在的年代会怎样,我想也是后者适于生存。即便宝玉对黛玉痴心一片娶了她做老婆,以黛玉多愁善感的个性能容忍多情的宝玉在外拈花惹草?而八面玲珑的薛宝钗则不同,她开朗会活出女人的风采,即使宝玉不娶她,何愁别的男人不欣赏。 人生道路不可能没有沼泽与坑洼也许遍地荆棘,乐观的只把它当作登往成功的阶梯,前面是希望的曙光,悲观的遇到挫折举步维艰看到的是空洞,人生也许有时候乐观与悲观会并存,难免也会有失意,让乐观战胜悲观。烦恼时不如品一杯茶香四溢的龙井,听一曲云水禅心,领悟一番;行至水穷处,坐看云起时。Optimism and pessimismThere is such a small story is also very interesting, to say that there are two Mantis outside a circle around theback. A sad said: " the outside people cursing we are pests. " but the other one is a face of excitedsaid: " I dont know that, obviously they said we Hello! Bug! " optimism and pessimism, only a wrong thought in passing. Suddenly think of comedian Pan Changjiang said he was a line: " are concentrated essence. " Oh classic which, optimists see is confidence, pessimistic people think inferiority.This is the optimism and pessimism to see different things, an optimist will look for opportunities in trouble, but the pessimist sees the opportunity is in danger. Optimists think the world is full of fl……余下全文